The Enemy of The Great Is The Good

I talk a lot about this.

You don’t want good.

Are you settling for “good enough”? It’s a question we often avoid, but one that holds the key to unlocking our true potential. The truth is, “good enough” can be a subtle but powerful force, preventing us from achieving greatness in our careers, relationships, health, and creative pursuits.

What is the “Good Enough” Trap?

The “Good Enough” Trap is the tendency to become complacent with a level of performance that is “good enough” to get by, but not good enough to truly excel. It’s the comfort zone that stifles growth and prevents us from reaching our full potential.

Examples of the “Good Enough” Trap:

• Career: Staying in a job that pays the bills but doesn’t inspire you.
• Fitness: Maintaining a “good enough” level of fitness instead of striving for optimal health.
• Creativity: Releasing “good enough” creative work instead of pushing for excellence.
• Relationships: Accepting a “good enough” level of connection instead of nurturing deep and meaningful bonds.

Why is “Good Enough” So Dangerous?

The “Good Enough” Trap is dangerous for several reasons:

• It Stifles Growth: It prevents you from learning new skills and expanding your horizons.
• It Leads to Regret: You may look back on your life and wonder what you could have achieved if you had pushed yourself harder.
• It Creates a Cycle of Mediocrity: Settling for “good enough” in one area of your life can bleed into other areas, creating a pattern of mediocrity.

The Antidote: Cultivating “Divine Discontent”

So, how do we escape the “Good Enough” Trap? The answer lies in cultivating what I call “divine discontent.”

“Divine discontent” is a healthy dissatisfaction with the status quo. It’s not about being negative or unhappy, but about constantly striving for improvement.

Here are some strategies to cultivate “divine discontent”:

• See Comfort as a Challenge: Don’t be afraid to step outside your comfort zone.
• Embrace Discomfort: Recognize that growth often involves discomfort.
• Become Your Own Relentless Mentor: Hold yourself to high standards and constantly seek ways to improve.

Practical Strategies to Escape the “Good Enough” Trap

Here are some practical strategies to escape the “Good Enough” Trap and unlock your potential:

1. Identify Your Settling Points: Where are you accepting “good enough” in your life? Make a list of areas where you know you could be doing more.
2. Set Audacious Goals: Don’t be afraid to dream big. Aim for something that truly excites and inspires you.
3. Challenge Your Comfort Zone Daily: Do something every day that scares you a little bit.
4. Seek Feedback and Accountability: Surround yourself with people who will push you to be your best.
5. Embrace Failure as a Learning Opportunity: Don’t be afraid to fail. Failure is a necessary part of the growth process.

Stop Settling, Start Soaring

The “Good Enough” Trap is a real threat to our potential. By cultivating “divine discontent” and implementing practical strategies, we can break free from its grip and start soaring toward our goals. Don’t let “good enough” define you. It’s time to unleash your best.